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Something I remember vividly is the disciplinary methods my parents used. I'm sure we all have these memories, good or bad!
I was never spanked or slapped or physically harmed in any way as a child. My husband tells stories of his mom wielding a fly swatter as her disciplinary tool!
My father did take my oldest brother under our staircase to discipline him. There was a small storage area there and we kids knew that was where Dad took his belt to anyone who was mouthy or defiant. My older sister got his belt a few times too but never me.
My mother never hit us although she did take a willow tree switch to my brother's legs if they were late coming home. We all had strict curfews for supper time and bedtime and I guess my brothers were also too busy playing and having fun to notice the time. So she'd go looking for them in the neighbourhood and when she found them she'd whip their calves with her willow switch all the way home.
I think I got sent to my room a few times by my mother. My rare punishments were always for talking back to my mom, never any terrible disobedience. I don't think my father ever disciplined me, at least I certainly don't remember if he did.
I actually did a few things that might have required stricter discipline - like hiding kittens in my bedroom closet even though I knew we were forbidden to have cats because my mother was allergic to them. Like scratching my initials into the brand new stereo system and then lying and saying my brother did it. He had the same initials as me so I guess my 8 year old brain thought it was a brilliant move to claim my 18 year old brother did it.
I also played hookey from school in Grade 2 many times (and was caught), like locking all the bathroom stall doors in school when I was in Grade 3, then denying it was me, and a few other transgressions. But I was never punished for any of them. I was just given the severe scolding and lecture which always made me feel really bad!
Who did the disciplining in your house and what kind of punishments did you receive?